Saturday, December 31, 2011

Testing Your Patience!

Every child has their own way of testing our patience and trying to determine just how far they can push you before you explode. Some do this intentionally, especially if all they receive from you is negative attention. They may even get a laugh out of your explosion. Regardless of the reason your child pushes your buttons, it is always best to attempt to react in a positive way. As hard as that may sound, it is possible to do. Even if all it takes is stepping back and taking a breath, you will be amazed at the outcome. ♥ ~Jess

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

You are not your parents!

If is always hard to break away from habit. It is the same for methods of parenting. Once you are used to the same routine, it can be difficult to attempt something new. 
You don't know if a method is effective if you don't try it. Parenting is all about learning and adapting. Some ways are more effective for some parents than others. Each child behaves differently. It is very important for us as parents to understand the differences in the way that our children act. By understanding, we can adapt to the situation and try to be prepared to deal with our child or children acting out. There are hundreds of life lessons we have learned through the years. Regardless, we don't have to use all the parenting methods, after all each child is different and you are not your parents. ♥ ~Jess

Monday, December 26, 2011

Encourage Expression, Allow them to grow!

Children can have such a huge imagination. As a parent, it is important to encourage your child to express not only their feelings, but to use their imagination freely.
Expressing themselves encourage them to be creative and independent. But, more importantly it can make learning more interesting and fun!  ♥ ~Jess

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Watching, Listening, & Learning

Sometimes parents forget that their child is just a child. They don't know any better than what they are taught and what they see and hear. It is a learning experience for both the child and you. 
A well-behaved child does not happen over night.
It takes patience, understanding, and knowing it is a working progress. If you react negatively to your child's behavior, you will get a negative reaction from your little one. If your child lacks your attention, they will act up just to get any reaction from you! They are listening more than you think!! ♥ ~Jess

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Hissy fits No more!!

Every parent has dealt with their child acting out in public. It can be embarrassing, stressful, and puts you on the spot.. Why is it, in a grocery store, a little boy is screaming his head off and then the mother thinks it is helpful to spank causing the kid to scream louder! I think not... If your child is prone to throwing fits in the store, then it is time to lay out the rules. Explain to your child that fits are not going to cut it and if they act out, you will take them back to the car for a cool-down. Tell them if there is a fit throwing session, they will not get their special treat or snack. 
If your child is walking with you, Rule 1: No running off. Rule 2: hold my hand. 3: If not holding hands- walk beside- do not take off in the store or they will be put in a cart! Big Tip~ Remember if you lose your cool, they will to!! ~Jess

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Smile So They Smile!

Your children are our future, which you shape and mold. Teaching them morals, values, and respect is important. Showing them that life can be rewarding, builds determination to be successful at whatever they do. It really is the little things in life that matter. Seeing you smile, makes your child happy. And knowing they have your love and support builds a positive character. You may not make your kids into what you want them to be, but you do teach them what they need to know to be what they want to be! 

♥ ~Jess

Monday, December 19, 2011

Giving your child hope!

~Instill in yours, a brighter future, sharing a positive outlook in the present.~ 
                                                ♥ Jess

Teaching your child to read

Every parent wants to teach their child as much as they can. But, pushing your child to learn isn't the best strategy. Try making learning fun and challenging! Show your child that you are interested and having fun when reading! Let them be curious and use their imagination. And try not to correct them if they make a mistake. If you see something they need to work on, like pronouncing a word, make a game out of it, like follow the leader, you saying a word, then them repeating it. By challenging your child, they will learn to challenge themselves! Also, pay attention to your child's shows, and ask questions to get them to communicate with you. If you show interest in what your child is learning, they will too. Read to your kid at least once a day and encourage them to read to you! ~Jess http://tipsandtricksfornewmommys.weebly.com/index.html

Sunday, December 18, 2011

SAVE SAVE SAVE!!

There are so many things we can do to try and save money. But, with kids, that can be easier said then done. My biggest savings have to come from the grocery store. I am always checking online with many different companies for coupons and specials offered. Also, make sure you scan your mvp card, which can also contain manufacturers coupons that can be used in other stores. Online, Food Lion has a site you can check out, that allows you to add coupons and savings to your mvp card, that are taken off at the time of purchase. To help save more, make a list of groceries you need, and stick to your list to avoid buying a whole bunch of junk that you don't need. Organize before heading out to go shopping. Also, make sure you sign up for newsletters and memberships through your favorite companies, many will e-mail you coupons and some even mail out coupons to their customers. With kids, no one can afford not to save!                                                                Visit my site- Tips and Tricks For New Mommys  ~Jess

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Step back and breathe!

Early in the morning, most parents would find it hard to roll out of bed smiling! But it is important that you try. If you want your little one to wake up in a good mood, you have to set an example! Hearing Good Morning and seeing the smile, makes rolling out of bed worth while!! Try to keep your cool when your little one has lost theirs. You can't tell them to quit screaming and throwing a fit, if that is what you are doing.. Take a breath!!  ~Jess

Friday, December 16, 2011

Lead by example!

Sometimes it is so hard to remember that your children are watching you. Often, you let a cuss word slip and wonder when they will be repeating you.. When you are out and about and someone cuts you off in the intersection, think next time before you decide to become verbal and cuss up a storm. After all the idiot can't hear you anyways, so why make your child listen to your rants. Being polite to others, lets your child learn to accept people for who they are and use their manners! Your child is really your biggest fan!!

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                                                                Thanks for visiting!! ~Jess

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Tips an Tricks- Now on Facebook

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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Welcome to my blog, Thanks for visiting

Hello all! Thank you for visiting. I hope that you have learned something! New updates every month, so come visit as much as you like. Any questions, comments, or suggestions, please feel free to e-mail me jessicadarr25@yahoo.com. Love- Jess